A Life Of Love

Relationships should bring out the best in you and not the stress in you
Love is a beautiful thing when expressed and shared with the right person
You or they will never be perfect
Only perfect for one another

Relationships should lead to marriage
After the friendship has developed
After the relationship has shown to be worth it
When the man decides he can’t live without you
When God has blessed the union

To be more, To do more
To be the epitome of marriages
To show the world that God is able

There is life in love
There is joy in the journey
There is prosperity in the process
There is power in the pain
There is bliss in the blessing
Of overcoming, enduring and conquering
This thing called love

No egos, no pride, no attitudes, no blaming
Embracing the good, the bad and the ugly
Knowing that through prayer and faith
The two of you can conquer the world
Love covers a multitude of sins

God honors marriage
God will honor your marriage
If you simply trust Him and not self
Allow God in to drive out everything that’s not like Him
To fill you both with a determination to make it
A depth of love for one another
A sensitivity to each other’s needs
A prayer life that God honors
A commitment to always care and share
A promise to love no matter what happens
Agape love at its best
Holy love that scares the devil
A bond that can’t be broken
A God kinda love

God is Love……..


Garment Of Praise


Isaiah 61:3

Put on your garment of praise
Wear it well I say
For HE knows the plans HE has for you
And HE shall make a way
For every dream to come to pass
For every promise shall last
HE is not a man that HE should lie
While men in the natural tells lie after lie
HE will never go back on HIS word
HE is a God of action, forget what you heard
Nothing can compare
Neither here nor there

Put on your garment of praise
Wear it well I say
For HE has given you a new day
Embrace it through all
The tears, heartaches and pain
For your life shall never be the same.

When praises go up
Blessings come down
Put on the whole armor of God
Put a praise on your lips
A dance in your feet
A clap in your hands
Give Him all the honor, the glory and the praise
For He alone is worthy

A garment of praise

The Trust Factor

Opening your soul to another
Revealing all your indiscretions
No more covering up your scars
In the natural or in the spirit
Believing that they’ll never hurt you intentionally
Forces you to build a bond

This in turn raises the trust factor

Closing the doors to your past hurts and pain
Reviving those dead feelings
Choosing to be happy again
No longer being afraid to love
Forces you to build a bond

Which in turn raises the trust factor

Patience truly is a virtue
Learning to lean and depend on God even in this
Producing the fruit of love
Embracing a newness
Not knowing what tomorrow holds
But trusting a God that holds your tomorrow in His hands
He knows what’s best for you
Even in the trust factor

Faith will carry you when facts can’t keep you
Prayer will comfort you
When fear does grip you
Love will cover a multitude of things
When trust has crept in and stares you in the face

A bond has to built in order for trust to be solidified
The trust factor causes you to take risks
Believing in someone else takes courage
Hope in love will cause you to see life in a whole new light

The trust factor
Either you have it
Or you don’t

Let go and let God

Everything else will fall into place.

Life After

Life is beautiful
Life is precious
What you choose to do with this life, your life matters

Stand firm in the life of the word
Be not easily moved
This life is how you handle it with care

There is life after the hurt
Life after he pain
There is life
It’ll never be the same

There is life after the loss of a loved one
Life after the break up
There is life in the Son

There is life after they walk out
Life after the heartache
That’s what living is all about

There is life…….

There is a new life
That awaits your new beginning
There is a life that you must embrace
A life that you must face
A life that has your name written all over it

There is a life…….

How you choose to live this life
Will determine your outcome
There is life out younger somewhere
And it’s calling you to come there
Rise up and Go forth in boldness

There is a life…….

Live a life filled with joy
Live a life filled with happiness
Live a life that is consumed with power
A life that provokes change and growth
A life of freedom and fierceness
Live a life that opens up new possibilities and doors
A life of promise
A life of grace
A life of class
A life that causes others to stop and stare


Give yourself a chance and live
Laugh, love and lift yourself up
Live a life free of what others think
Live a life that is filled with joy and peace

Live a life that is free of the past
Live a life that makes YOU happy.

There is a life that awaits you and only you
Go after it and live…..live…..live.

There is Life After whatever you may have gone through or will go through.
Life is a beautiful thing………
Life after.

Lessons Learned

On this journey called life
There will be lessons learned
Experiences gained
Tears shed
Memories created
Loss of friendships
Loves found

But most of all; lessons learned

Some situations aren’t all bad
Most people aren’t all good
You win some
You lose some
But most of all; the lessons are learned

You may not pass every test
You may not dot every I
Nor cross every T
However the lessons are learned

Learning to forgive will never be easy
Learned to let go will never be hard
Learning to overcome you may face some challenges
However, the lessons are learned

Learning to turn the other cheek is always Gods way
Learning to not hold grudges
Learning to guard your mouth to prevent what you really want to say
Learning to deal with liars, back stabbers and gossipers
Is a lesson all in itself
Learning to look past a manipulator and deceiver is a test that makes your prayer life
But, learning the lesson is all that matters

They may never see their wrong
They may always deny it
They may always play the victim
However, learning to love the hell right out of them is a direct mandate from God
Learn the lesson

On this journey called life
These things are mere distractions
To keep your eyes off of God
However, the lesson in these trials is to stay focused
Pray more
Press harder
Praise louder

Learn the lesson and never let the lesson have to be repeated

Lessons learned always bring elevation
Learned lessons always takes you to new dimensions

Learn the lesson

Side note: mount up on wings as an eagle
Run and not be weary
For you shall reap if you faint not

If God is for you, He’s more than the world against you
No weapon formed against you shall prosper

Worth The Wait

No matter how long you have been single; never settle.
No matter what odds may appear to be against you; never give up
No matter what your past looks like; never look back

God’s got you.

No matter what people may say
No matter what others may think
No matter what weapon was formed, it shall not prosper

God’s got you.

No matter what last night looked like
Today you have a brand new start

No matter what made you cry
Today you can choose to smile

No matter what you lost
Today you can choose to take it all back

No matter what
No matter who
No matter why
No matter when

Today, God’s got you!!!!

A Date With Destiny

You don’t have time to dwell on your past nor
Continue to allow others to force you to live there…..
You can no longer stand in awe at the things people may do, say or think

You my love, have a Date With Destiny.

No more tears of sadness or moments of grieving
Throw away the box of blues and open a new box called blessings
Count them daily and share with loved ones

You my love have a Date With Destiny.

Learn to love who you are, just the way you are
Embrace the change that God has allowed
Walk in your power and feel good about it

You my love, have a Date With Destiny.

There’s a newness that awaits you
A blessing with your name on it
A door you must open
An answer to your prayers
And beauty for your ashes

Because you my love, have a Date With Destiny.

No more drama or indecisiveness, no more hopeless days
Or sleepiness nights.
The time has come for you to walk in boldness to match your beauty

Out of darkness, free from the wilderness……
Roar like a lion, soar like an eagle
Run like a wild gazelle

Remain calm as a dove
Humble like no other
Dream as the visionary that you are
Possess that inner princess
Wear that crown

For you my love, my love, my dear sweet sister
You my queen, walking in that royal ambiance

Have Date With Destiny.

What. God has for you, IT IS FOR YOU and it’s written all over your face
You can see it in your walk
Hear it in your laugh
Feel it in your presence

That God has smiled on you
The moment you met your God given Destiny.

To all my single sisters, be encouraged and know that at the appointed time, Destiny will grace your presence and overtake you in abundance of Love, joy and peace. Wait on your destiny, walk in your destiny and allow your destiny to consume your very being, your very essence. For you my love………..

Have a Fate With Destiny.

Speak Lord

When the storms of life begin to rage, I need you to Speak. Lord

When the trials and tribulations rise, I need you to Speak Lord

When the sun doesn’t seem to shine but the rain seems to fall consistently, I need you to Speak Lord

At the end of the tunnel where no light is where I thought it would be, I need you to Speak Lord

When the weapons are formed, I need you to Speak Lord

Before the darkness comes to steal my light, I need you to Speak Lord

For the battles that are already won, I need you to Speak Lord

After the victories, I need you to Speak Lord

For every test, I need you to Speak Lord

For every lesson learned, I need you to Speak Lord

For every mountain high and valley low, I need you to Speak Lord

Speak Lord because I am nothing without you
Speak Lord because I know with you all things are possible
Speak Lord because your word will not lie
Speak Lord because you bring me joy
Speak Lord because you are the head of my life
Speak Lord because you are my strength
Speak Lord because you are my creator
Speak Lord because you know all things, you are omniscient and omnipresent
Speak Lord to the core of my soul because you Lord make me whole
Speak Lord to my heart and heal all things
Speak Lord to my spirit so my soul will sing

Speak Lord Speak Lord Speak Lord……..

Pressing Pass The Pain……..

As the heart cries silently, the mouth musters up a smile. And as the night draws near; the echoes of the hurt whispers in your ear.

The key slides into the lock, turning the knob and entering into an empty place that you call home. Although the room is filled with familiar faces; they seem so far away; different atmospheres and different places. Being delivered and set free from the past is but a mere memory as you face the pain of today, praying to God to make a way. Kneeling down onto the floor, pleading with God to have more……. More of HIM and less of you, less of the pain and no more disappointments.

Yet the soul screams, as your heart cries and yet your face musters up a smile to hide the pain. You’ve learned to press pass the the pain. You adapted the old adage, no pain no gain. No escape for your silent nightmares that appear to everyone else as a sweet dream. Making no excuses as to why your life is what it is, blaming no one but accepting your truth and no longer living in a web of lies.

Day in and day out, you forgive and let go to let God get the glory, no one knows your story. No one could dare walk a mile in your shoes but they sit back and wait to see you sink or soar. They laugh and mock as you mistake your way into your blessings. But didn’t God say He’d use the foolish things to confound the wise??? Although you think you’ve missed your blessings, your husband, your dream, your house, your gifts, your ministry and your moment…..God is saying I will use all this pain that you have pressed pass to set you up for your greatest victory.if God did it before, He’ll do it again! Same God right now that He was back then!!!

What the devil meant for evil, God shall turn it around for your good! And every tongue that rises against you, they shall be condemned. For God will not be mocked and He shall make your enemies your footstool. Despise not your small beginnings and know that the favor and blessings of The Lord is upon you. So my sister, my brother….please continue to press pass the pain. It is not in vain. God still has need of you in the kingdom of God, in this lifetime, in this moment and you shall be redeemed, restored, renewed and revived!

Press Pass The Pain.

New Beginnings……

Today I woke up and realized that I deserve so much more. I deserve to be in peace, to walk in love and to receive love, to receive everything God has in store for me. I woke up and realized that some people in my don’t deserve to be. I had allowed certain individuals into my life who had no business being here. Today I woke up with a made up mind to start fresh and give myself a new beginning.

I had one question for myself, “Why did I allow them into my personal space knowing beforehand that they NEVER belonged there in the first place?”.

I answered my question in all honesty and truth. Simply because I felt sorry for them, pitied them and decided to give them a green light. While the whole time in all honesty they bothered me, made met skin crawl and I was miserable with the friendship. So, today I woke up and realized that it is absolutely okay to say NO if I want too!

As my new beginning started this morning, it was somewhat frustrated because the change was uncomfortable. And as I began to pray and ask God for wisdom I clearly heard HIM say, “Be still and know that I am God”. That alone gave me reassurance that I was going to be okay. I am going to be better than okay. Allow the change to come, embrace the change and watch God work.

I can no longer afford to allow non factors into my space. People who drain you, weigh down on your spirit and has no spirituality, prayer or Holy Ghost in them to carry you in the spirit should never be allowed to walk into your life, take up space and reside in that place with no regards to your walk with God or the God you serve.

When I found myself in this space God had already had a way of escape for me. And because I did not want to hurt the individual, God set it up where they walked away. As soon as they did, it was like a weight was lifted, a sigh of relief came out and a smile across say face. I was so glad that it happened that way!!! All I could do was say “Thank You Jesus”!!!!!!

I asked God to direct to my steps, that His will be done and to keep my mind stayed on Him. He is my everything and He knows exactly what I need, want and desire. He is my Jehovah Jireh, my provider. My peace, my joy, my love, my King, my protector, my healer and I don’t see nothing wrong with simply waiting on my God to prove Himself to me day to day and moment to moment.

This has been an eye opening experience and a very well lesson learned. Today my new beginning has begun and today I am dependent upon God and God alone!

Thank You Lord!!!