They say faith is the substane of things hoped for adn the evidence of things not seen.
I do beg to differ because the bible clearly states that “NOW faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen.”

There is a big difference in wording and a big difference in the word of God. The word of God is only effective if you properly speak the word just as God gives it and you must believe it in order to see the manifestation of HIS word come to pass in your life.

Now I said all that to say this; How long have you been waiting on God to send you a mate? being single is not easy nor hard but oh so necessary. God gives us according to scripture the desires of our heart. We shall reap if we faint not. How many times have you fained by settling for less than you deserve because you were impatient?

How many times asa single man or woman of God have you missed your Ruth or Boaz because you fainted during the process? Just becuase it may seem that God is taking to long to you, does notmean the promise has been denied. It simply means it has been delayed because God forsaw some things concerning you or the future mate. However, be not weary in your well doing because God’s word will not and can not lie.

You must do your part as well. Be prepared, get your credit somewhat together, have a plan, a vision, some goals and start a savings account.

When God looks at your life and how you are waiting in the process, it will either speed God up or slow Him down. it all depends on YOU! HOW you wait and what you are doing while you are waitng. Are you patient? Are you a complainer? Are you diligent in the things that God has required of you? Are you praying, fasting adn busy in minsitry? Is your house clean? Are you clean? These are steps in making sure you are at least half way there while you are waiting.

Don’t give up or do not give in. It is a process, a purging and pruning must be done in order to be developed into the man or woman God has predestined you to be.

You are in my prayers!

Luvv Kizzy…..


Love That Covers…..

When love covers it causes the eyes to see through the heart
When love covers it penetrates your past and promotes your present
A love that covers will fly you into your future
And open your eyes to finally see who you were along

A love that covers is pure and persistent
A love that covers endures the hard times
And will celebrate with you in the good

A love that covers, comforts and creates an atmosphere of serenity
A love that covers, will shelter you in the storm
And push clouds out the way
So that you can live in the SUNshine and the SONship

A love that covers emulates the love that Christ expresses
A love that covers is unconditional and without boundaries
A love that covers is what God gives and should receive

When you have encountered a love that covers
Keep it, cherish it and embrace it
Show it and Share it

It is rare and unique
It is Godly
It is Love in the rarest form of friendship, relationship and Godship

A love that covers should cause you to bump into your future and dance with destiny……….

A love that covers
A love that covers
A love that covers

To Love or Not To Love…….

Today as I sit here in Starbucks, sipping on some decaf coffee and meditating on life, ministry, love and relationships I somewhat came to a loss for words. Reason being is that most relationships and marriages I have seen are not conducive to house real love only lust. It does not emulate the epitome of love nor does it express godly love. Since I had been single for a while, I had gotten used to being alone. I found myself content being single and once I evaluated other relationships I had no desire to be in one. I guess if you have never seen or had real godly love that can turn your heart, open your eyes, stimulate your mind and give you hope then you will question does true love really exist.

I still believe that there are some men out there that know how to SHOW love and make love to your mind before they ever touch your body. I do believe that there are some men out there that will love god more than their mate. I do have hope that God is still developing some men for the single women who desire to be married. I don’t believe in judging all men the same because there are some men who desire the same as we do. Real love, a praying woman of God, a woman who does not nag, a woman who still believes in cooking and cleaning and not just dining out and traveling all the time. Women still desire an old fashioned guy who believes in taking care of home literally and working hard and treating her how God desires her to be treated.

So relationships are a two way street. You have to give and receive. You have to love to be loved and you have to pray in order to be prayed for. The bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing AND obtains favor with The Lord. So, if in fact the man chooses the woman God placed in his life and that he prayed for, then when he marries her; he receives an extra dose of favor from God. Now that to me sounds like a double blessing!!!! He already honors marriage so, to then get favor added is a double blessing!

Ladies if you desire a Boaz please have some Ruth qualities. Ladies if you are praying for a husband, please be marriage material. Please marry for love and companionship on top of other things. Because when you are in a season of disagreements you need to be able to LOVE past that even when you don’t like your spouse! Marriage is work, marriage is ministry not just sex! Don’t open up a man or woman’s heart if you are not prepared to minister to them! Don’t take n responsibility if you are not prepared to be responsible for that individuals life the bible declares that the two shall become one. Make sure that your mate is in the will of God for your life because the last thing you should be is married and miserable!

Men please make sure you understand what it is you’re taking on before you step from relationship to marriage. Always be friends first! Get to know the woman, take your time and most importantly make dating fun, develop a prayer life together. Always take important steps as far as getting your credit together before marrying, get counseling and make sure you LIKE one another. I know a lot of couples that’s just dealing with each other because they feel stuck but they can’t stand each other.

Date who you want to become. What I mean is, don’t date someone who is a dope dealer, no future and a bunch of baby mama’s if you’re looking to build a business, travel and make investments to better your life and lifestyle. That makes no sense to me. Sometimes you have to upgrade and force your mind to go with you. It’s called growth! I heard someone say that she wanted a business man, gentle with a little bit of thug. All I could do was look dumb founded. What?! No, no, no! What you need to do is et your mind right, re-evaluate your standards, requirements and get to know Jesus. Get YOU together first. Because last time I checked, Bill Gates did not have an ounce of thug in him, yet he’s a gentle business man with loads of money.

Sometimes ladies you have missed your blessing and you just gotta wait until God feels you can handle and will accept who HE desires you to be with. But most times there is no substance and patience in women and some women don’t know their worth so they settle and marry the first thug with some slacks on! Silly women is what my pastor calls them! I agree!

Men marry someone who can pray for you and with you. Marry someone who can make your money grow more than she spends it. Find a woman who doesn’t mind being dedicated to the home, cooking and traveling but loves God more than she loves you. Those are the women who normally gets spoiled and well taken care of. She compliments her man, makes him feel like a million bucks and also makes him look good in public.

These are my thoughts as I sit here sipping n my coffee in Starbucks………