This should be your attitude and thought process when you begin to analyze just who you are. When you look in the mirror you should see who God created you to be. You should see beauty in its own unique way and you should feel powerful and strong. You should walk in your own personal authority on a daily basis. From the moment you wake up in the morning you should embrace who you are and everything your life embodies. The moment you get to the point where you feel you are free to be yourself; it’s like the universe aligns with everything God has in store for you. Blessings begin to come into your life, it is like miracles begin to happen and all good things manifest themselves into existence.
It is also at the moment when you look in the mirror and you see something or somebody you do not like. Who have you become? What or who have you allowed in your circle, space and life that has been able to manipulate your mind and spirit into thinking you were not ok just the way you were. If in fact before you turned into someone who “they” wanted you to be; ask yourself why did you allow that to happen and what was it about that particular individual that made their opinion of you matter to the point you changed into someone they wanted you to be. See, when people come into your life and provoke change that is benefiting them and not you, they are intimidated by who you are and what your future looks like. The problem in this is at this point you may not recognize the greatness and beauty of who you are and the power you possess. It baffles me to see beautiful women and handsome men who are like puppets on a string being guided by somebody because they have no idea who they are or where they are going. This is called a lack of sense of direction.
When people who have hidden agendas or are selfish and intimidated, they begin to pick others apart because they lack what you have. They take pride in destroying and tearing others down who are weak and feeble because it gives them a sense of control. They have issues true enough, but they would not be able to do this had you not handed them the power to do so. You have given them free reign over your mindset. How can you change this???
Begin to do a mirror check. Look yourself in the mirror and if you do not like what you see internally and mentally begin to change it for the better. Get back to you,only this time make it a better you. Surround yourself with people who love and accept you for you. When you begin to see yourself in a more beautiful aspect and know that you can be free to be just who you are; you begin to attract those type of people into your life. Positive people and energy makes a world of difference.
Dispose of people and things that are not good for your mental and emotional well being. Negative energy and people depletes you of all good things. It is a hindrance and blocks blessings. Overcome obstacles, press pass the pains, hurts and failures and start to believe you are more than a conquerer and you can do all things through Christ Jesus who strengthens you.
Take the labels off that others or yourself have put on you. Remove the negative titles off of you and begin to live freely. Begin to smile and laugh more. Begin to wake up and be care free. Do not worry about anything especially the opinions of others. Pray, eat, love and embrace who God created you to be. Your life is what you make it and you have to live for you. You can not live for other people or you will be miserable.
Br free to be you. Love your freedom. Walk in it and embrace it. No one can live your life for you. Never release power to those who fear your fierceness. That gives them power and power over you. Be free to be nobody else but you. Now and forever.